A lot of people mix up passion and love. Passionate love can end to a big deception.
Passion is often based on illusions and projections.
We expect from the other person to fill in our needs, our fears, our absence and lacks. We idealise the person.
Loving someone is helping him or her to breath and feel free.
Real love is to teach him/her to breath better.
He/she knows the other is not his/her belonging.
In both ways it’s important to create spaces to breath.
Don’t make love enchain yourself.
Fill up the glass of the other but don’t drink in the same glass.
Give your heart but don’t possess the heart of the other
In order to care for others you need to be able to care about yourself.
That’s why it is more than just a powerful feeling.
Love is feeling free into the relationship